So O and Tony have had contact recently. Unfortunately it was due to a tragedy. O's brother passed away and Tony went to the funeral. A great thing came out of it, Tony got to meet a ton of his family and establish relationships that he had never done before so I was glad that he went and sad that it took this death to make it happen.
I have found that for the first time O is truly married. His wife and I have had some emailing and she seems to agree that O is a deadbeat, well simply because you can't deny the obvious. Has this made an ounce of difference. Nope, O hasn't gotten a job, he is being taken care of like a child. I have seen on FB where they have vacation plans and go to UT ball games. Man it must be nice to have someone who takes 100% care of you and doesn't make you earn it. I really don't want to hear about your vacationing and your ball gaming when all my money goes to Prom, Graduation and preparing for college. It really just disgusts me to no end. You should have to suffer behind being a responsible parent like we do but instead we get to see your $100 plus orange and white overalls and want to throw up. Yep I worked those games for years, I know they cost a chunk, matter of fact all of your clothes are nicer than your childrens. You and your "no shame" factor is just amazing. Although unlike you, I don't want your wife to feel pressure to take care of your children. It isn't her responsibility, it's yours but while she is taking care of the rest of your needs, how bout you take your sorry ass out there and get a job and support the children you created.
It had to be strange to be in a group of folks and none of your children want to be in a photograph with you. It had to be a bit LOUD, to see that they really didn't want to have conversation with you either. Tony may talk a bit now, but he know's deep down that the only person you care for is yourself. As do all the people who know you.
You should give Gus a call and thank him, he has been more supportive of your son in the last few months than you have been in a decade. Sad part about that is, you are 100% ok with that, I can almost hear your mind saying, "Glad someone is doing it".
Yep, I am mad again, I am mad because these are the moments that count, the ones that will never be forgotten and you are in a position where you are being taken care of so you should feel compelled to get out there and help these kids yet you don't. You avoid child support like a person on the run, oh yeah because you do have open warrants out on you. You just won't get right and try and establish some fundamentals with these kids because it will cost you some money. Your right, I said it, it is going to cost you some money. You have been shamefully and painfully unavailable to these kids and it is costing you financially, emotionally and one of these days physically. Only so much guilt one can endure before it effects their health.
