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I don't mention most names because I haven't asked permission and I don't thinks its fair so if you see yourself referred and you wonder, thats why. If you are Orlando Tony Tirrell Hall Sr., well then you are referred to all the time because this blog is soley about you and your financial, emotional and simple neglect.

Well I was on Facebook and I met the mother of which I spoke about earlier. She is connecting with O's family and of course he is worming his way in as well. Slime is as slime does. Orlando, all I ask is that you do not make wrong with this child as you have with all the others, be honest. If you can't do what you say, then don't say it. It is truly why you have lost the respect of all your children and all of their mothers hate you. Nothing spells H-A-T-R-E-D, like watching our children shed tears over you and your broken promises so if you learn one thing from all the messes we have cleaned up its, Don't Lie To The Children.

She has no choice but to give her son a choice to get to know you. All responsible parents let the kids make that decision themselves unless its unsafe. We have no choice because if we push our kids in a direction they will always run the opposite. Young children love their parents no matter how crappy they are. Its when they hit those teen years and they no longer want the attention of parents that they will grown angry and bitter. So my suggestion to all parents but especially those who don't reside with the kids, get your time in while they are young because if you don't it is you who loses in the end.

I am glad that your mother is wanting to see this child. I don't have any issues with her or any other family member of yours. We simply drifted our separate ways and that was that. No iniative was made on either part. My son will be 17 this year, he is soo close to college he can taste it. I am soo proud of him and like I have stated before, if anyone in your family wants to see Tony, he is always throwing shotput at the track meets and he will be starting in the football games on Fridays. Its a start. As for you, you just sit on the sidelines and watch, if Tony wants to deal with you he is more than welcome but he would not like any surprises in a public forum.

Never forget the last time you were at a game and you humiliated him in front of all of his peers, "Yall just think Im a check". Nope we haven't fogotten that you were only at the ballgame in the first place to see another woman's child play, happened upon your son, got embarrassed because he wanted nothing to do with you, humiliated you and him in public, check my ass beacuse you hadn't paid in years, would have gotten your ass kicked had I been there & then acted as if nothing had ever happened the next time you saw us. I would suggest that NEVER happen again because I swore to myself there would be no next time, it would be me and a posse trampeling your head.

Orlando Hall Sr. Saga 2010

I work 10 hour days and it was just easier for me to get on and speak my peice during those hours because the minute I get home, I am enveloped in dinner, kids, laundry and simply making the world go round and I don't have time to be angry and deal with the thoughts I have for my the dead beat. The site was blocked and I was unable to get on here and vent but I happened to try it today and what do you know it worked so I have a lot to say in liue of a stretch of silence.

What did Tony get for Christmas this year, the wonderful gift of nothing. What did he get for his birthday, same gift, nuttin. No calls, no drive bys this year just simple silence and that same self-serving attitude as every year. I suspect that you have been well taken care of during tax season, its probably Orlando's Christmas over there isn't it. Which would mean someone isn't filing married and claiming your sorry ass, more like head of household and claiming your sorry ass.

Will I ever see money I can count on? I seriously doubt it. Not only that but there is talk that man has another child out there somewhere. I just will never understand why it is that a man go about creating all of these childen and never even acknowledge them. They are running around in the same cities at school functions and wondering when they look in eyes that resemble their own thinking is he/she related to me? Sad stuff. It would be nice for all the children who think Orlando Hall is their childs sperm donor would come together so that at least our children could know who each other is and decide for themselves if they would like to maintain relationships.

Orlando filed taxed and I got a little back from that and then made an odd payment of $40 last week but before that I hadn't seen anything since his era of unemployement of $14.20 a week.

Oh yes that reminds me. I made a call to the Child Support office when I started getting that strange and small amount of money and when I asked her what the deal way Gaye Kelly had the nerve to tell me I should be grateful to be getting any money at all. I can't tell you how I wanted to come thru the phone and show her just how grateful I was. She has become so complacent and bitter over the years. It means you need to find new employment Gaye, your not meant for this line of work anymore.
Then as quickly as the money came in it stopped and I thought I guess I should have been more grateful, NOT. Put that basterd in jail and make him pay all of us hard working mothers.

Yep, I still hate him and hate on him every chance I get. I was told he got a job at one of our new Sports Bar & Grill out here named Lincoln's and didn't last a week. How sad is that? Not even a week of employment and canned/quit again. I am glad I make enough to support your child I would hate it if I really needed you financially because you certainly wouldn't be there.

I wonder if he is still with good Ol Angie. I saw him walking around the area not too very long ago and I had an Ally McBeal moment where I mentally chasing his sorry ass down with my car and then I went on about my day.

Anyway for you folks that happen upon this blog, If your Orlando's family, please don't defend him because you are related. Put yourself in my shoes. I hate him with reason. I have no qualms with Orlando's relatives, they simply lost touch and Tony grew up. Tony plays ORHS football, come out any Friday night and support him, I am sure he would be glad to see ya there. If you happen to be a Baby Mama of Orlando's and you still defend him, I have to ask "WTF are you thinking and then I will go absolutely deaf". However if you are looking to introduce our children to one another, you can find me on myspace and facebook. I fully believe all of them should be aware of each other.

Ok, I am done venting today.