Ten More Dollars

Wow, is this really the best you could do? I called the Child Support Office to make sure these micro payments you are making are not keeping you from being warranted. They are not. The lack of being able to catch you is however, I wonder how I can fix that? If this is going to be the consistency, you think your child is worth $10 a month/$120 a year. Lord you should be ashamed of your sad self.

Ringing In 2012

Orlando has recently married or at least applied for a marriage certificate. Yes we have seen the FB status. Congratulations. I hope you don't think that this will any way discourage me from pursuing child support because that will not happen. Tony will get what is owed him by you if he has to be 35 years old before it happens. At the $25 and $10 rates your paying to stay out of jail, I am guessing that he will be 35 before this happens but I am giving it to him for lunch so thanks for that. He has been accepted to TTU so when the expenses come around, I am sure I will be loathing you because you will always be more concerned with your status than any of your childrens. I hope your wife will not encourage this behavior. Maybe you will get a job, smoke/drink less and start supporting these kids you been having for the last 2 decades instead of letting someone support you so that you can make excuses for your deadbeat payments.

2012 is a new year and the first payment in 2012 I hope is not a representation of the "Get Outta Jail Free" payments you will continue to make in sporatic months when the office puts warrants out for your arrest. Just pay the lousy $200 a month and we wouldn't even have this conversation. Your past 40, grow up, this is sad.

Neglect On Blast

Despise You

Orlando Hall, I despise you most when I spend my entire check in one day and don't have any extra left over to give Tony for anything. He suffer's behind your neglegence and that's what leads me to disgust. Are you so worthless and selfish that you just continue to sit in that same bane existence and let all your children's mothers pay for everything. Then when they graduate or do somthing crowd worthy you will show up for a picture or in the background as if you played one single role. You haven't helped Tony out thru even one of his 12 years of school, so please don't show up at graduation. I may not be able to control my actions. If you do, you should hide in a corner because I won't hesitate to address with all of Oak Ridge, TN that you are a dead beat dad who doesn' t deserve one moment of false attention for any proud parental moment because you aren't a proud parent, you are a dead beat parent who hides behind a lifetime of attending college to avoid paying your dues, who still lives with his mamma and still at 40+ has no car, who can afford a 40oz of cheap malt liquor, a pack of cigarettes & some weed, but can't send even a $20 bill into the state to avoid going to jail or on the bright side to help out. You should be ashamed, I know I am. I am ashamed to say I ever thought enough of you to consider you a parent, the only good thing you ever did for me was Tony Hall. Hope you shrivel up every time you lie to your friends and family about how Tony's doing because you would be makin stuff up, they know what they see on Facebook and he won't even accept your friend request. That should tell you everything you need to know about what Tony thinks about you.

Whoa's of the Senoir Year

Tell me why ORHS insists on putting the school pictures, football pictures & annual order's in the prior to school starting. It's crazy. Summer is the hardest time for me. I pay full time for child care, keep the fridge stocked for Tony being at home, dish out more money for things to do, have to get school clothes and supplies. Yep, like I said crazy.

I was hoping to take the kids to KY Spash but it looks like I will be stretching all my $'s to the max to be able to afford clothes and pictures.

Lord, I would really like to be able to afford to be able to go on at least one vacation before Tony graduates, I would like to be with the finances to be able to help him with his college needs, I would like to be able to afford to go on these prospect trips at the end of this year, I would really like to be able to afford to do more than just live off the seat of my pants trying to stay above water.

Orlando, I know you don't give a S@#T about anyone but yourself but it would be nice if you would postpone your lifelong dream of finishing college (that is taking longer than a doctorate) and help support your kids who really do stand a chance of being able to graduate and make something of themselves. I am not going to stop pushing the courts to handle getting money from you. Tony deserves it. He is on his way to college. I don't care if he is 40 years old you will pay him what you owe him, but you should just man up and do it on your own.

In Sickness & In Health

It seems Orlando may very well be sick. An un-named person has seen him of late and reported that during the time he spent at their house O managed to have several seizures. When asked what the results are of some testing, he didn't know because he hadn't gone back to find out. There is something wrong with that statement, he either a) knows and doesn't want to tell b) never went to be tested in the first place or c) is afraid to go back and find out. Regardless, he needs to be able to tell folks what is wrong not to mention know himself. I can safely report back that he is still an active alcoholic so the seizures aren't being caused by my previous thought which was he quit drinking. I saw all of T's sibs on Facebook, they all favor each other. The newest is a spitting image. I find that comical seeing as how it was a fluke that she wound up with O in the first place and has defied the statement of once you go black because she hasn't gone back since, LOL.

I have started going to church so I am trying to change some ways, one of which is to have so much hatred and disdain for Orlando. Its hard. I am trying to find forgiveness and just let it go, but my son is fixing to go to college and make something of himself and I don't want to hear one word out of O's mouth of a contribution to that. The best I can do right now is to say, I no longer with you dead. Its not where the Good Lord wants me to be, but for now, its a baby step. If you had been a decent parent, it would have never boiled down to the money. I could have cared less, I survived all these years without it right. It seems like you have gotten scared now that you aren't well and you should be but its hard to trust anything you are about because if you were well, you would have just kept on going.

Dear Jesus,

Please help me with my anger towards my son's biological father. Please help me forgive him for all the things he has missed and never done for my son and my son's siblings.

Amen

$30 Get Outta Jail Free Card

As I have stated many times, if you want to know how to avoid paying any support for your child and not go to jail, just ask Orlando Hall, he knows all the tricks. I received this odd payment of $30 so I called the CS Office to see whether I lucked up and he got a job. Surely I jest right, right. Turns out Orlando went to court on 9/17/2010 my eldest sons birthday just to be extended to courtesy of coming back on 10/15/2010 and be given time to make payment in between. Somehow $30 just bought him a "Get Outta Jail Free" card.

Luckiest Deadbeat In The World

Orlando Hall should just sit at night and thank his lucky stars. He just knew his dumbass was going to jail so what does he do, he shows up for court still drunk from the night before. Hello jerk, if you can afford to drink and smoke, I think you can afford some lunch money for your son. But to no avail, this moron manages to muster up for the judge "Judge, here's the sitcheeashunn", my sister is sitting there thinking how did her sister ever have the nerve to sleep with such a moron much less manage to pull off having this kid who will defy all those moronic genes and be somebody. Thank you Jesus for that by the way. End result, they offered the stooge an attorney and he of course took one because that leaves him more time to get drunk and not pay me child support, oh yeah and owe somebody else money. I get this call from my sister later on telling me the details, apparently the judge asks O if he has been drinking because somebody has probably smelled it on him. He says he tied one on late into the night because he thought he was going to jail. Yep, he really said that out loud. The judge asked told him she could accomodate him with his request to get to jail and he bowed out of that one quickly taking his attorney and leaving the courtroom for a new date of whoknowswhen.

May 27th Contempt

Hopefully the court will see fit to know that you don't have the landslide of excuses you had last time of "I'm looking for work" or my personal favorite "The SS office has me listed as a dead person". Maybe, just maybe they will see you in the top bunk of this County Jail and you will have to fork over some of that money, however you may get it, in order to get out. But if you can't you can look forward to Good Ol Bubba checking you out. Maybe it will be incentive, to you know get a life and get a job. I look forward to seeing you on the fron page of "Busted".

Who will you run too? Who will save you now? How will you squirm your way out of this one? Tune in folks, next week for the answer to these and several other questions.

Contempt Court Date

Orlando has an Contempt Court Date on May 27th. I am gambling to say that they sent this information to his former address, but she would gladly relay the information of that I am sure. But he himself can use it as an excuse not to show, I didn't receive notification, my woman broke it off with me. Because that is what kind of fellow he is.

My baby asked me for lunch money today jerk and had you put $20 into child support, I might not have had to dig up change because I am broke until Friday. You suck. You Sucka. You Suckem.

Find A New Path

Good Day Orlando,

Do me a favor, please don't sugarcoat for one minute why the string of women that you inseminated over the years don't care for you at all. You know why, you know it has nothing to do with us not letting you have access to our kids(we all have tried to bring you to your children at various times)or because there is this love/hate thing going on. It has to do with the fact that you don't want anything to do with our kids(unless the mood suits you or you think you might be able to get back in). If any of us hold more than 10 good minutes of conversation with you, you try to see if you can rekindle old relationships. Thank God its been years and years and years since I fell for that noise but anyone one of us can attest that this is truth. You and Angie have now split for reasons I can only guess. You are living off of your Mom. You still have no car and as far as I know no job so you are looking for a women to shack up with so that you can use her up till she grows tired of your stories (most of them being fiction) and then you will be back at your Moms again until the next poor woman comes thru. I would love to see you get into AA, quit claiming gangs, clean up your act, get steady work and don't go the rest of your life faking it. Pretending to be a father to people who are willing to listen, people who don't know you & even people who do know you but will listen anyway. Do you think my son would be proud to call you a Crip, no I don't think that would go over well on his transcripts and applications for college. You are gonna be 40 this year and it is high time that you get with a program that works for you and this one doesn't work for you. I could understand if the Crips were helping you achieve a job, a car, a house but far all you have achieved is the status of a woman beater and maybe some men we don't know about but your record is for women/domestic assault, wonder how I know that one? I will tell you how I know that you are the only man in 37 years to hold the title of domestically assaulting me and that was prior to the whole Crip era. Back to the present, Before Tony graduates from High School 2012, it would nice to know that his father has been employed for at least a year at a job, has achieved getting a car and is paying half if not all of somebodies rent. 211, MaryJane & OE can't be your best friends anymore. The party is over, its been going on for all the years you can remember, wouldn't it be nice to have some recollection going on that was #1 positive, #2 not whitewashed with a sheen of whatever you chose to be on that day & #3 100% truth. I could 1/2 understand if you were still in your 20's and there was still a path for you to move on to but the path is quickly diminishing before your very eyes, you have already lost my son, I am pretty sure the twins don't want anything to do with you, I don't know how Jordan feels and hell I don't know the other 2 at all, but anything you have left to carry on your name is going to be too ashamed or too angry to do that if you keep up the path of which you are on. You have to wake up and smell the coffee Orlando. I would say do it for your kids but that's will never work, do it for yourself, so when you look in the mirror you see more than a washed up drunk that has to lie to feel like a person. You could fix yourself and then become and advocate for AA and I am being serious, you like to be in the limelight and that would be a family that would take you in and make you whole again. At least give it a try. I am not done saying hateful things about you by a long shot, but its not because I want to. I would not say one more hateful word about you, if would try to be a better man.

Soo..

I don't mention most names because I haven't asked permission and I don't thinks its fair so if you see yourself referred and you wonder, thats why. If you are Orlando Tony Tirrell Hall Sr., well then you are referred to all the time because this blog is soley about you and your financial, emotional and simple neglect.

Well I was on Facebook and I met the mother of which I spoke about earlier. She is connecting with O's family and of course he is worming his way in as well. Slime is as slime does. Orlando, all I ask is that you do not make wrong with this child as you have with all the others, be honest. If you can't do what you say, then don't say it. It is truly why you have lost the respect of all your children and all of their mothers hate you. Nothing spells H-A-T-R-E-D, like watching our children shed tears over you and your broken promises so if you learn one thing from all the messes we have cleaned up its, Don't Lie To The Children.

She has no choice but to give her son a choice to get to know you. All responsible parents let the kids make that decision themselves unless its unsafe. We have no choice because if we push our kids in a direction they will always run the opposite. Young children love their parents no matter how crappy they are. Its when they hit those teen years and they no longer want the attention of parents that they will grown angry and bitter. So my suggestion to all parents but especially those who don't reside with the kids, get your time in while they are young because if you don't it is you who loses in the end.

I am glad that your mother is wanting to see this child. I don't have any issues with her or any other family member of yours. We simply drifted our separate ways and that was that. No iniative was made on either part. My son will be 17 this year, he is soo close to college he can taste it. I am soo proud of him and like I have stated before, if anyone in your family wants to see Tony, he is always throwing shotput at the track meets and he will be starting in the football games on Fridays. Its a start. As for you, you just sit on the sidelines and watch, if Tony wants to deal with you he is more than welcome but he would not like any surprises in a public forum.

Never forget the last time you were at a game and you humiliated him in front of all of his peers, "Yall just think Im a check". Nope we haven't fogotten that you were only at the ballgame in the first place to see another woman's child play, happened upon your son, got embarrassed because he wanted nothing to do with you, humiliated you and him in public, check my ass beacuse you hadn't paid in years, would have gotten your ass kicked had I been there & then acted as if nothing had ever happened the next time you saw us. I would suggest that NEVER happen again because I swore to myself there would be no next time, it would be me and a posse trampeling your head.

Orlando Hall Sr. Saga 2010

I work 10 hour days and it was just easier for me to get on and speak my peice during those hours because the minute I get home, I am enveloped in dinner, kids, laundry and simply making the world go round and I don't have time to be angry and deal with the thoughts I have for my the dead beat. The site was blocked and I was unable to get on here and vent but I happened to try it today and what do you know it worked so I have a lot to say in liue of a stretch of silence.

What did Tony get for Christmas this year, the wonderful gift of nothing. What did he get for his birthday, same gift, nuttin. No calls, no drive bys this year just simple silence and that same self-serving attitude as every year. I suspect that you have been well taken care of during tax season, its probably Orlando's Christmas over there isn't it. Which would mean someone isn't filing married and claiming your sorry ass, more like head of household and claiming your sorry ass.

Will I ever see money I can count on? I seriously doubt it. Not only that but there is talk that man has another child out there somewhere. I just will never understand why it is that a man go about creating all of these childen and never even acknowledge them. They are running around in the same cities at school functions and wondering when they look in eyes that resemble their own thinking is he/she related to me? Sad stuff. It would be nice for all the children who think Orlando Hall is their childs sperm donor would come together so that at least our children could know who each other is and decide for themselves if they would like to maintain relationships.

Orlando filed taxed and I got a little back from that and then made an odd payment of $40 last week but before that I hadn't seen anything since his era of unemployement of $14.20 a week.

Oh yes that reminds me. I made a call to the Child Support office when I started getting that strange and small amount of money and when I asked her what the deal way Gaye Kelly had the nerve to tell me I should be grateful to be getting any money at all. I can't tell you how I wanted to come thru the phone and show her just how grateful I was. She has become so complacent and bitter over the years. It means you need to find new employment Gaye, your not meant for this line of work anymore.
Then as quickly as the money came in it stopped and I thought I guess I should have been more grateful, NOT. Put that basterd in jail and make him pay all of us hard working mothers.

Yep, I still hate him and hate on him every chance I get. I was told he got a job at one of our new Sports Bar & Grill out here named Lincoln's and didn't last a week. How sad is that? Not even a week of employment and canned/quit again. I am glad I make enough to support your child I would hate it if I really needed you financially because you certainly wouldn't be there.

I wonder if he is still with good Ol Angie. I saw him walking around the area not too very long ago and I had an Ally McBeal moment where I mentally chasing his sorry ass down with my car and then I went on about my day.

Anyway for you folks that happen upon this blog, If your Orlando's family, please don't defend him because you are related. Put yourself in my shoes. I hate him with reason. I have no qualms with Orlando's relatives, they simply lost touch and Tony grew up. Tony plays ORHS football, come out any Friday night and support him, I am sure he would be glad to see ya there. If you happen to be a Baby Mama of Orlando's and you still defend him, I have to ask "WTF are you thinking and then I will go absolutely deaf". However if you are looking to introduce our children to one another, you can find me on myspace and facebook. I fully believe all of them should be aware of each other.

Ok, I am done venting today.

Delusional Tales of Grandeur

Why does a man who hasn't contributed anything to my sons life in over a decade wish to make himself feel better by telling his friends and family tales of grandeur of caring for my son when he was a baby/toddler. Even at my wildest and worst parenting Orlando Hall never offered to pay for anything, he never changed diapers, he never kept Tony, he didn't buy Tony clothes, he didn't take Tony to the doctor. This is what he did. He would ask for Tony when it was time to have a family photo op so that he could have a giant photo to attribute to his fake stories of grandeur. Orlando, your truth is distorted and you been letting that fake ass woman you are with agree with them soo long now you believe them to be true. The most you ever got Tony was when you were with Layla and that was only a handful of times, aside from that you got him once or twice in Kingsport till you decided it was more important to leave your 3 kids in the car so you could stop in some project in the ghetto to do God Knows What while my baby was in the hot ass car getting eyeballed by onlookers. Yep I believe that, she had no reason to lie, you was more worried about whatever was in that project than the wellbeing of your own kids. You can walk around here or anywhere for that matter and claim to have been such a great father but even at my worst you weren't around. Remember after you whooped my ass, I wouldn't have nothing to do with you, then you decided to pick my son up from the daycare and cut all his hair off another reason you got cut off, then you came to that same daycare and let my son know you were leaving for FL and he cried and chased you down, oh yeah all this time while you provided nothing but heartache, no money whatsoever, thats what you provided. Yes, you are right I don't like you, hate is strong, you are worthless though. Quit speading lies to yourself and others, you can't even name accurate tales to go along with them and its sad. If anyone wanted to be assured of the real deal all they would have to do is ask Tony, he would tell them in a heartbeat, my dad don't do NOTHING for me but blow hot air and leave us behind to watch his backside. And stay away from Drews house because I don't want to ever hear again that you are at his house or spreading tales that you are going to whoop him, it can really make me start some shit you just don't wanna get started. Tell that bitch your with to keep her trap shut and start her own blog and she should call it "Delusional Tales of Grandeur" with tales of hating her mans baby mamaz and plenty of stuff she don't really know but thinks she does.

A Funny Coincidence

God must not like Ugly, because Orlando's Girl anonymously wrote commented on my page today and said some stupid stuff and tried to imply that I wasn't this and that.

I get home today and my eldest son tells me that his roomie, Adam brought Orlando over to get a tatoo. While he was there Drew said he was talking away about his Gangsta lifestyle as a Crip, was drunk and smokin weed. He got into it with a girl at Drew's house, a girl who was old enough to be a child of his and he held a gun to her when she told him what a joke he and his lifestyle were. What a man. Joke of a man is more like it.

Angie, you must have been hating your life this week and it made you feel better to come on my page and try to spit trash at me. Why don't you take all that anger and hostility and apply it to your life and your man. I am neither scared of you or to tell you what a sad person I truly think you are. Feel free to come visit anytime you like. As for all those amends that Orlando has made, I am soo not feeling that, especially after I talked to my son. He is going to jail or hell, he can never take that education the government or you is wasting your money on and apply it to a real job because nobody is going to hire a washed up, drunk, lookin like a drug addict man for any job of anykind of stature. You got your prize honey, please have it, wrap it up daily in a fake lil bow and consider it yours, you deserve it. And please, feel free to share this message with anyone you like, I share it with all the world. Have a nice day.

Gotta call from sources in Kingsport this morning letting me know that Orlando is in jail for non-payment of child support and contempt of court for not showing up. I bet Angie is whippin out her savings right now to save her prescious Orlando. Guess my support will stop this week, oh what a web we weave.

Another Government Screw

So I check the website that usually gives me bad news and I see to my amazement that Orlando has paid $365.00, so I call the card number to see if this payment has made it to me and of course it hadn't so I go back to the website to see why that is and I still can't figure out the why's of it all. When this Deadbeat gets his refund of which he hasn't worked hard enough to get, the state takes it but they take it to repay off State Aid. The young, white male that answered the 800 number for the state was snide as hell when he said that that money was owed to them. BULLSHIT, that money should be paid at least in a half and half manner especially when they can't DO THEIR JOB AND COLLECT MY MONEY ON A REGULAR BASIS. I HATE YOU ORLANDO HALL.

So this smug little asshole on the state line says he will note in my case that I want this NCP enforced and I laughed because I said well if they don't know this by now they never will. I asked for my balance with the state and he gave me a number in the $4000 area which I laughed at because it has to be DAMN low in comparison to the majority of baby mamaz that sit on their ass all day and do nothing. Then he had the nerve to tell me that Orlando owes me $18,099. I find that funny that he owes me $14,000 more than I owe them but they get to take an amount of money that I will NEVER see unless its enforced. This county has issues with enforcement they just see chances and BULLSHIT. AND YES whoever reads this I AM ANGRY.

Child Support NON-Enforcement

Well the time came and Orlando went to court with his appointed attorney. He brought letters with him from the local job agency supporting his claim to fame of "I am trying to find a job". I feel like the judge is walking around with the old cartoon Sucker stick for a head because she has just been bamboozelled by a habitual liar who now has the luck of having a participant in his crimes of neglegence and her name is wife or whatever idiot is writing him those letters. I wouldn't be a bit surprised if she concocted these letters for him.

I did hear that both Angie and Tre went to court with Orlando. Something the court frowns upon wholeheartedly but it did get the poor pitiful me effect across that he was looking for. The child in question that had no one to care for him is 15 and his mother was sitting directly beside him so he had no business in court but apparently it helped in getting his "Get out of child support free" card so it must have gotten the effect he wanted which is to not pay any of his real children's mothers.

Orlando, you never cease to disgust me. Why don't you just give up your rights to Tony so Terrell, the real man in this situation can take up where you never were. Its just that simple. For the world to hear, you want to know why this man won't give up his rights to my son, well its because they won't erase his back child support. They won't take away the debt he owes his son so he won't give the boy up so that someone who does the real job can take credit for it. I so wish you would give up so you can devote all your time to children who aren't related to you.

Thanks Terrell, you are a great man for continuing your relationship with Tony, maybe one day Orlando will think of himself second for a change and give Tony up so he can carry your last name.

Monopoly - Child Support Edition

In ongoing comments this morning with one of Orlando's childrens' mother, I coined the phrase "Get out of Child Support Free Card" and that is what I feel like when it comes to Orlando and the child support game he plays. In less than a week we will see if that saga continues. Make no mistake good people, I am not the only one suffering behind this. Orlando has a set of twins with another mother, and 2 more children with 2 other mothers as well. Thats 5 all together and I have heard of one more but DNA hasn't proved that one yet. I tell my son when it comes to girls, "Honey, if they favor you in any way, I would suggest that you don't talk to them because you really don't know for sure if you aren't related". Its sad but its true.

Orlando Goes To Court

So Orlando goes back to court on February 26th, 2009. Over the last few months and within the last few days, I have faxed various things to the child support office to dispute his bleeding heart case of "I can't find a job" & "I don't have a car". The man has never owned a car and thats in 17 years so why should that effect the support I get now. I googled over 50 places within a 1.5 mile radius of his house so they are within decent walking distance. Half of those jobs require no experience so he should have no excuses for not applying for them.

Back to the court date...... I couldn't attend this one but I figured with all the information I have sent to their office they were painfully aware that I want this man to pay or go to jail.. So they gave him the option for an attorney which is of course his rights but also the biggest waste of tax dollars today. If he had a decent reason for paying then he wouldn't need an attorney, but rights are rights aaight. So Laura calls and gives me a funny for the day. It turns out they appointed her to his case. She of course had to turn it down because shes my sister and all but I don't know who he has acquired. Put his ass in jail. He shoulda been there anyway.

Again, we play the wait to get paid game............