As it turns out, I have been receving regular payments from O. They aren't much, but at this time in our lives a little goes a long way so I appreciate it. My newfound look on life has me hating less and looking for more good in folks that I once despised. Haven't spoken a word to him and have absolutely no desire to really. It's not my relationship to mend, if he ever wants to have a relationship with Tony he will have to really work hard and I don't know if he will ever be willing to do this.
Tony has gotten to play in the last two ORHS Varsity football games. FYI, he is #78, OLine & DLine. This weeks game is in pretty far off and I won't be attending. J doesn't act right at the games, 7 is just too young to have a lil one sit still for something she doesn't even understand.
Go Wildcats...
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
In Sickness & In Health
It seems Orlando may very well be sick. An un-named person has seen him of late and reported that during the time he spent at their house O managed to have several seizures. When asked what the results are of some testing, he didn't know because he hadn't gone back to find out. There is something wrong with that statement, he either a) knows and doesn't want to tell b) never went to be tested in the first place or c) is afraid to go back and find out. Regardless, he needs to be able to tell folks what is wrong not to mention know himself. I can safely report back that he is still an active alcoholic so the seizures aren't being caused by my previous thought which was he quit drinking. I saw all of T's sibs on Facebook, they all favor each other. The newest is a spitting image. I find that comical seeing as how it was a fluke that she wound up with O in the first place and has defied the statement of once you go black because she hasn't gone back since, LOL.
I have started going to church so I am trying to change some ways, one of which is to have so much hatred and disdain for Orlando. Its hard. I am trying to find forgiveness and just let it go, but my son is fixing to go to college and make something of himself and I don't want to hear one word out of O's mouth of a contribution to that. The best I can do right now is to say, I no longer with you dead. Its not where the Good Lord wants me to be, but for now, its a baby step. If you had been a decent parent, it would have never boiled down to the money. I could have cared less, I survived all these years without it right. It seems like you have gotten scared now that you aren't well and you should be but its hard to trust anything you are about because if you were well, you would have just kept on going.
Dear Jesus,
Please help me with my anger towards my son's biological father. Please help me forgive him for all the things he has missed and never done for my son and my son's siblings.
Amen
I have started going to church so I am trying to change some ways, one of which is to have so much hatred and disdain for Orlando. Its hard. I am trying to find forgiveness and just let it go, but my son is fixing to go to college and make something of himself and I don't want to hear one word out of O's mouth of a contribution to that. The best I can do right now is to say, I no longer with you dead. Its not where the Good Lord wants me to be, but for now, its a baby step. If you had been a decent parent, it would have never boiled down to the money. I could have cared less, I survived all these years without it right. It seems like you have gotten scared now that you aren't well and you should be but its hard to trust anything you are about because if you were well, you would have just kept on going.
Dear Jesus,
Please help me with my anger towards my son's biological father. Please help me forgive him for all the things he has missed and never done for my son and my son's siblings.
Amen
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
$30 Get Outta Jail Free Card
As I have stated many times, if you want to know how to avoid paying any support for your child and not go to jail, just ask Orlando Hall, he knows all the tricks. I received this odd payment of $30 so I called the CS Office to see whether I lucked up and he got a job. Surely I jest right, right. Turns out Orlando went to court on 9/17/2010 my eldest sons birthday just to be extended to courtesy of coming back on 10/15/2010 and be given time to make payment in between. Somehow $30 just bought him a "Get Outta Jail Free" card.
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
WTF
So Orlando goes to court both here and in Kingsport and claims that "seizures" crap and apparently has some type of insurance (with no job mind you) that provides him with a Dr's excuse. Attention all deadbeats, please take note to my blog if you ever want to know what to do to excuse yourself from providing lunch money or anything for your child.
Someone contacted O's mother and got a report that he has stopped drinking and this is what has caused these seizures. Too bad I wasn't in court to reveal this information to the Judge, I am not really sure it would have mattered but it would have made me feel better.
I do hope that O stops being a useless alcoholic, but to use it as an excuse not to support his many sperm donations is pretty sad to me. Get your azz off the couch and stop watching TV or telling stories of grandure to young minds and get a J O B.
Someone contacted O's mother and got a report that he has stopped drinking and this is what has caused these seizures. Too bad I wasn't in court to reveal this information to the Judge, I am not really sure it would have mattered but it would have made me feel better.
I do hope that O stops being a useless alcoholic, but to use it as an excuse not to support his many sperm donations is pretty sad to me. Get your azz off the couch and stop watching TV or telling stories of grandure to young minds and get a J O B.
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Luckiest Deadbeat In The World
Orlando Hall should just sit at night and thank his lucky stars. He just knew his dumbass was going to jail so what does he do, he shows up for court still drunk from the night before. Hello jerk, if you can afford to drink and smoke, I think you can afford some lunch money for your son. But to no avail, this moron manages to muster up for the judge "Judge, here's the sitcheeashunn", my sister is sitting there thinking how did her sister ever have the nerve to sleep with such a moron much less manage to pull off having this kid who will defy all those moronic genes and be somebody. Thank you Jesus for that by the way. End result, they offered the stooge an attorney and he of course took one because that leaves him more time to get drunk and not pay me child support, oh yeah and owe somebody else money. I get this call from my sister later on telling me the details, apparently the judge asks O if he has been drinking because somebody has probably smelled it on him. He says he tied one on late into the night because he thought he was going to jail. Yep, he really said that out loud. The judge asked told him she could accomodate him with his request to get to jail and he bowed out of that one quickly taking his attorney and leaving the courtroom for a new date of whoknowswhen.
Thursday, May 20, 2010
May 27th Contempt
Hopefully the court will see fit to know that you don't have the landslide of excuses you had last time of "I'm looking for work" or my personal favorite "The SS office has me listed as a dead person". Maybe, just maybe they will see you in the top bunk of this County Jail and you will have to fork over some of that money, however you may get it, in order to get out. But if you can't you can look forward to Good Ol Bubba checking you out. Maybe it will be incentive, to you know get a life and get a job. I look forward to seeing you on the fron page of "Busted".Who will you run too? Who will save you now? How will you squirm your way out of this one? Tune in folks, next week for the answer to these and several other questions.
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Contempt Court Date
Orlando has an Contempt Court Date on May 27th. I am gambling to say that they sent this information to his former address, but she would gladly relay the information of that I am sure. But he himself can use it as an excuse not to show, I didn't receive notification, my woman broke it off with me. Because that is what kind of fellow he is.
My baby asked me for lunch money today jerk and had you put $20 into child support, I might not have had to dig up change because I am broke until Friday. You suck. You Sucka. You Suckem.
My baby asked me for lunch money today jerk and had you put $20 into child support, I might not have had to dig up change because I am broke until Friday. You suck. You Sucka. You Suckem.
Monday, May 3, 2010
Find A New Path
Good Day Orlando,
Do me a favor, please don't sugarcoat for one minute why the string of women that you inseminated over the years don't care for you at all. You know why, you know it has nothing to do with us not letting you have access to our kids(we all have tried to bring you to your children at various times)or because there is this love/hate thing going on. It has to do with the fact that you don't want anything to do with our kids(unless the mood suits you or you think you might be able to get back in). If any of us hold more than 10 good minutes of conversation with you, you try to see if you can rekindle old relationships. Thank God its been years and years and years since I fell for that noise but anyone one of us can attest that this is truth. You and Angie have now split for reasons I can only guess. You are living off of your Mom. You still have no car and as far as I know no job so you are looking for a women to shack up with so that you can use her up till she grows tired of your stories (most of them being fiction) and then you will be back at your Moms again until the next poor woman comes thru. I would love to see you get into AA, quit claiming gangs, clean up your act, get steady work and don't go the rest of your life faking it. Pretending to be a father to people who are willing to listen, people who don't know you & even people who do know you but will listen anyway. Do you think my son would be proud to call you a Crip, no I don't think that would go over well on his transcripts and applications for college. You are gonna be 40 this year and it is high time that you get with a program that works for you and this one doesn't work for you. I could understand if the Crips were helping you achieve a job, a car, a house but far all you have achieved is the status of a woman beater and maybe some men we don't know about but your record is for women/domestic assault, wonder how I know that one? I will tell you how I know that you are the only man in 37 years to hold the title of domestically assaulting me and that was prior to the whole Crip era. Back to the present, Before Tony graduates from High School 2012, it would nice to know that his father has been employed for at least a year at a job, has achieved getting a car and is paying half if not all of somebodies rent. 211, MaryJane & OE can't be your best friends anymore. The party is over,
its been going on for all the years you can remember, wouldn't it be nice to have some recollection going on that was #1 positive, #2 not whitewashed with a sheen of whatever you chose to be on that day & #3 100% truth. I could 1/2 understand if you were still in your 20's and there was still a path for you to move on to but the path is quickly diminishing before your very eyes, you have already lost my son, I am pretty sure the twins don't want anything to do with you, I don't know how Jordan feels and hell I don't know the other 2 at all, but anything you have left to carry on your name is going to be too ashamed or too angry to do that if you keep up the path of which you are on. You have to wake up and smell the coffee Orlando. I would say do it for your kids but that's will never work, do it for yourself, so when you look in the mirror you see more than a washed up drunk that has to lie to feel like a person. You could fix yourself and then become and advocate for AA and I am being serious, you like to be in the limelight and that would be a family that would take you in and make you whole again. At least give it a try. I am not done saying hateful things about you by a long shot, but its not because I want to. I would not say one more hateful word about you, if would try to be a better man.
Do me a favor, please don't sugarcoat for one minute why the string of women that you inseminated over the years don't care for you at all. You know why, you know it has nothing to do with us not letting you have access to our kids(we all have tried to bring you to your children at various times)or because there is this love/hate thing going on. It has to do with the fact that you don't want anything to do with our kids(unless the mood suits you or you think you might be able to get back in). If any of us hold more than 10 good minutes of conversation with you, you try to see if you can rekindle old relationships. Thank God its been years and years and years since I fell for that noise but anyone one of us can attest that this is truth. You and Angie have now split for reasons I can only guess. You are living off of your Mom. You still have no car and as far as I know no job so you are looking for a women to shack up with so that you can use her up till she grows tired of your stories (most of them being fiction) and then you will be back at your Moms again until the next poor woman comes thru. I would love to see you get into AA, quit claiming gangs, clean up your act, get steady work and don't go the rest of your life faking it. Pretending to be a father to people who are willing to listen, people who don't know you & even people who do know you but will listen anyway. Do you think my son would be proud to call you a Crip, no I don't think that would go over well on his transcripts and applications for college. You are gonna be 40 this year and it is high time that you get with a program that works for you and this one doesn't work for you. I could understand if the Crips were helping you achieve a job, a car, a house but far all you have achieved is the status of a woman beater and maybe some men we don't know about but your record is for women/domestic assault, wonder how I know that one? I will tell you how I know that you are the only man in 37 years to hold the title of domestically assaulting me and that was prior to the whole Crip era. Back to the present, Before Tony graduates from High School 2012, it would nice to know that his father has been employed for at least a year at a job, has achieved getting a car and is paying half if not all of somebodies rent. 211, MaryJane & OE can't be your best friends anymore. The party is over,
its been going on for all the years you can remember, wouldn't it be nice to have some recollection going on that was #1 positive, #2 not whitewashed with a sheen of whatever you chose to be on that day & #3 100% truth. I could 1/2 understand if you were still in your 20's and there was still a path for you to move on to but the path is quickly diminishing before your very eyes, you have already lost my son, I am pretty sure the twins don't want anything to do with you, I don't know how Jordan feels and hell I don't know the other 2 at all, but anything you have left to carry on your name is going to be too ashamed or too angry to do that if you keep up the path of which you are on. You have to wake up and smell the coffee Orlando. I would say do it for your kids but that's will never work, do it for yourself, so when you look in the mirror you see more than a washed up drunk that has to lie to feel like a person. You could fix yourself and then become and advocate for AA and I am being serious, you like to be in the limelight and that would be a family that would take you in and make you whole again. At least give it a try. I am not done saying hateful things about you by a long shot, but its not because I want to. I would not say one more hateful word about you, if would try to be a better man.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Soo..
I don't mention most names because I haven't asked permission and I don't thinks its fair so if you see yourself referred and you wonder, thats why. If you are Orlando Tony Tirrell Hall Sr., well then you are referred to all the time because this blog is soley about you and your financial, emotional and simple neglect.
Well I was on Facebook and I met the mother of which I spoke about earlier. She is connecting with O's family and of course he is worming his way in as well. Slime is as slime does. Orlando, all I ask is that you do not make wrong with this child as you have with all the others, be honest. If you can't do what you say, then don't say it. It is truly why you have lost the respect of all your children and all of their mothers hate you. Nothing spells H-A-T-R-E-D, like watching our children shed tears over you and your broken promises so if you learn one thing from all the messes we have cleaned up its, Don't Lie To The Children.
She has no choice but to give her son a choice to get to know you. All responsible parents let the kids make that decision themselves unless its unsafe. We have no choice because if we push our kids in a direction they will always run the opposite. Young children love their parents no matter how crappy they are. Its when they hit those teen years and they no longer want the attention of parents that they will grown angry and bitter. So my suggestion to all parents but especially those who don't reside with the kids, get your time in while they are young because if you don't it is you who loses in the end.
I am glad that your mother is wanting to see this child. I don't have any issues with her or any other family member of yours. We simply drifted our separate ways and that was that. No iniative was made on either part. My son will be 17 this year, he is soo close to college he can taste it. I am soo proud of him and like I have stated before, if anyone in your family wants to see Tony, he is always throwing shotput at the track meets and he will be starting in the football games on Fridays. Its a start. As for you, you just sit on the sidelines and watch, if Tony wants to deal with you he is more than welcome but he would not like any surprises in a public forum.
Never forget the last time you were at a game and you humiliated him in front of all of his peers, "Yall just think Im a check". Nope we haven't fogotten that you were only at the ballgame in the first place to see another woman's child play, happened upon your son, got embarrassed because he wanted nothing to do with you, humiliated you and him in public, check my ass beacuse you hadn't paid in years, would have gotten your ass kicked had I been there & then acted as if nothing had ever happened the next time you saw us. I would suggest that NEVER happen again because I swore to myself there would be no next time, it would be me and a posse trampeling your head.
Well I was on Facebook and I met the mother of which I spoke about earlier. She is connecting with O's family and of course he is worming his way in as well. Slime is as slime does. Orlando, all I ask is that you do not make wrong with this child as you have with all the others, be honest. If you can't do what you say, then don't say it. It is truly why you have lost the respect of all your children and all of their mothers hate you. Nothing spells H-A-T-R-E-D, like watching our children shed tears over you and your broken promises so if you learn one thing from all the messes we have cleaned up its, Don't Lie To The Children.
She has no choice but to give her son a choice to get to know you. All responsible parents let the kids make that decision themselves unless its unsafe. We have no choice because if we push our kids in a direction they will always run the opposite. Young children love their parents no matter how crappy they are. Its when they hit those teen years and they no longer want the attention of parents that they will grown angry and bitter. So my suggestion to all parents but especially those who don't reside with the kids, get your time in while they are young because if you don't it is you who loses in the end.
I am glad that your mother is wanting to see this child. I don't have any issues with her or any other family member of yours. We simply drifted our separate ways and that was that. No iniative was made on either part. My son will be 17 this year, he is soo close to college he can taste it. I am soo proud of him and like I have stated before, if anyone in your family wants to see Tony, he is always throwing shotput at the track meets and he will be starting in the football games on Fridays. Its a start. As for you, you just sit on the sidelines and watch, if Tony wants to deal with you he is more than welcome but he would not like any surprises in a public forum.
Never forget the last time you were at a game and you humiliated him in front of all of his peers, "Yall just think Im a check". Nope we haven't fogotten that you were only at the ballgame in the first place to see another woman's child play, happened upon your son, got embarrassed because he wanted nothing to do with you, humiliated you and him in public, check my ass beacuse you hadn't paid in years, would have gotten your ass kicked had I been there & then acted as if nothing had ever happened the next time you saw us. I would suggest that NEVER happen again because I swore to myself there would be no next time, it would be me and a posse trampeling your head.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Orlando Hall Sr. Saga 2010
I work 10 hour days and it was just easier for me to get on and speak my peice during those hours because the minute I get home, I am enveloped in dinner, kids, laundry and simply making the world go round and I don't have time to be angry and deal with the thoughts I have for my the dead beat. The site was blocked and I was unable to get on here and vent but I happened to try it today and what do you know it worked so I have a lot to say in liue of a stretch of silence.
What did Tony get for Christmas this year, the wonderful gift of nothing. What did he get for his birthday, same gift, nuttin. No calls, no drive bys this year just simple silence and that same self-serving attitude as every year. I suspect that you have been well taken care of during tax season, its probably Orlando's Christmas over there isn't it. Which would mean someone isn't filing married and claiming your sorry ass, more like head of household and claiming your sorry ass.
Will I ever see money I can count on? I seriously doubt it. Not only that but there is talk that man has another child out there somewhere. I just will never understand why it is that a man go about creating all of these childen and never even acknowledge them. They are running around in the same cities at school functions and wondering when they look in eyes that resemble their own thinking is he/she related to me? Sad stuff. It would be nice for all the children who think Orlando Hall is their childs sperm donor would come together so that at least our children could know who each other is and decide for themselves if they would like to maintain relationships.
Orlando filed taxed and I got a little back from that and then made an odd payment of $40 last week but before that I hadn't seen anything since his era of unemployement of $14.20 a week.
Oh yes that reminds me. I made a call to the Child Support office when I started getting that strange and small amount of money and when I asked her what the deal way Gaye Kelly had the nerve to tell me I should be grateful to be getting any money at all. I can't tell you how I wanted to come thru the phone and show her just how grateful I was. She has become so complacent and bitter over the years. It means you need to find new employment Gaye, your not meant for this line of work anymore.
Then as quickly as the money came in it stopped and I thought I guess I should have been more grateful, NOT. Put that basterd in jail and make him pay all of us hard working mothers.
Yep, I still hate him and hate on him every chance I get. I was told he got a job at one of our new Sports Bar & Grill out here named Lincoln's and didn't last a week. How sad is that? Not even a week of employment and canned/quit again. I am glad I make enough to support your child I would hate it if I really needed you financially because you certainly wouldn't be there.
I wonder if he is still with good Ol Angie. I saw him walking around the area not too very long ago and I had an Ally McBeal moment where I mentally chasing his sorry ass down with my car and then I went on about my day.
Anyway for you folks that happen upon this blog, If your Orlando's family, please don't defend him because you are related. Put yourself in my shoes. I hate him with reason. I have no qualms with Orlando's relatives, they simply lost touch and Tony grew up. Tony plays ORHS football, come out any Friday night and support him, I am sure he would be glad to see ya there. If you happen to be a Baby Mama of Orlando's and you still defend him, I have to ask "WTF are you thinking and then I will go absolutely deaf". However if you are looking to introduce our children to one another, you can find me on myspace and facebook. I fully believe all of them should be aware of each other.
Ok, I am done venting today.
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