Dead Beat Holidayz

Orlando Hall quit his job or was fired. Why in the hell is it that a man loses his job during the holidays. Its not like he would be buying my son Christmas gifts or anything. Oh I know, somebody was more important, probably his non-biological son or his need to drink himself into a frenzy. Oh maybe he just got popped for a drug test and failed miserably like he does at all things parental. Yep, I still loathe the ground he walks on. I am sure his wife/girlfriend will pick up the slack for them but the rest of his family which is PLENTY gets to suffer because of whatever had occurred in his world. As you can see I have been quiet for almost 6 months now. Why is that you say, well its because his menial $48 or under has been coming in like clockwork for that period of time. So yes if Orlando thinks he is equivalent to a check, he would be right. Since the buck stopped on the 5th of November, I will be frequently updating this blog until the idiot gets a job or dies, whichever happens first. Good Job Orlando, you are the most meaningless parent in my world. Please stop telling those lies to all your associates about what a great parent you are. Those are blatent lies.

Delusional Tales of Grandeur

Why does a man who hasn't contributed anything to my sons life in over a decade wish to make himself feel better by telling his friends and family tales of grandeur of caring for my son when he was a baby/toddler. Even at my wildest and worst parenting Orlando Hall never offered to pay for anything, he never changed diapers, he never kept Tony, he didn't buy Tony clothes, he didn't take Tony to the doctor. This is what he did. He would ask for Tony when it was time to have a family photo op so that he could have a giant photo to attribute to his fake stories of grandeur. Orlando, your truth is distorted and you been letting that fake ass woman you are with agree with them soo long now you believe them to be true. The most you ever got Tony was when you were with Layla and that was only a handful of times, aside from that you got him once or twice in Kingsport till you decided it was more important to leave your 3 kids in the car so you could stop in some project in the ghetto to do God Knows What while my baby was in the hot ass car getting eyeballed by onlookers. Yep I believe that, she had no reason to lie, you was more worried about whatever was in that project than the wellbeing of your own kids. You can walk around here or anywhere for that matter and claim to have been such a great father but even at my worst you weren't around. Remember after you whooped my ass, I wouldn't have nothing to do with you, then you decided to pick my son up from the daycare and cut all his hair off another reason you got cut off, then you came to that same daycare and let my son know you were leaving for FL and he cried and chased you down, oh yeah all this time while you provided nothing but heartache, no money whatsoever, thats what you provided. Yes, you are right I don't like you, hate is strong, you are worthless though. Quit speading lies to yourself and others, you can't even name accurate tales to go along with them and its sad. If anyone wanted to be assured of the real deal all they would have to do is ask Tony, he would tell them in a heartbeat, my dad don't do NOTHING for me but blow hot air and leave us behind to watch his backside. And stay away from Drews house because I don't want to ever hear again that you are at his house or spreading tales that you are going to whoop him, it can really make me start some shit you just don't wanna get started. Tell that bitch your with to keep her trap shut and start her own blog and she should call it "Delusional Tales of Grandeur" with tales of hating her mans baby mamaz and plenty of stuff she don't really know but thinks she does.

A Funny Coincidence

God must not like Ugly, because Orlando's Girl anonymously wrote commented on my page today and said some stupid stuff and tried to imply that I wasn't this and that.

I get home today and my eldest son tells me that his roomie, Adam brought Orlando over to get a tatoo. While he was there Drew said he was talking away about his Gangsta lifestyle as a Crip, was drunk and smokin weed. He got into it with a girl at Drew's house, a girl who was old enough to be a child of his and he held a gun to her when she told him what a joke he and his lifestyle were. What a man. Joke of a man is more like it.

Angie, you must have been hating your life this week and it made you feel better to come on my page and try to spit trash at me. Why don't you take all that anger and hostility and apply it to your life and your man. I am neither scared of you or to tell you what a sad person I truly think you are. Feel free to come visit anytime you like. As for all those amends that Orlando has made, I am soo not feeling that, especially after I talked to my son. He is going to jail or hell, he can never take that education the government or you is wasting your money on and apply it to a real job because nobody is going to hire a washed up, drunk, lookin like a drug addict man for any job of anykind of stature. You got your prize honey, please have it, wrap it up daily in a fake lil bow and consider it yours, you deserve it. And please, feel free to share this message with anyone you like, I share it with all the world. Have a nice day.

Another $48.23

Name: STEPHANIE ANN REESE
Member ID: 000143376

Payment From: 05/01/2009 To: 06/01/2009

Time: 01:29 PM Date: 05/21/2009
Issue Date Check Number Payment Status Amount Sent
To You
05/20/2009 0042050686 CASHED $48.23

Alrighty folks, I got another $48.23.

Gotta call from sources in Kingsport this morning letting me know that Orlando is in jail for non-payment of child support and contempt of court for not showing up. I bet Angie is whippin out her savings right now to save her prescious Orlando. Guess my support will stop this week, oh what a web we weave.

Hallelujah Chorus From Messiah - The Mormon Tabernacle Choir

Name: ORLANDO TONY HALL SR Case ID: 000046783
Member ID: 000143377 Status: OPEN
Payment From: 11/01/2008 To: 06/01/2009
Time: 07:02 AM Date: 05/01/2009

04/27/2009 04/27/2009 $100.00 NCP $100.00 $0.00 Y

I just had to break out in song, Orlando Hall has a job and is paying his child support. YYYYY EEEEE AAAAA HHHHH

Another Government Screw

So I check the website that usually gives me bad news and I see to my amazement that Orlando has paid $365.00, so I call the card number to see if this payment has made it to me and of course it hadn't so I go back to the website to see why that is and I still can't figure out the why's of it all. When this Deadbeat gets his refund of which he hasn't worked hard enough to get, the state takes it but they take it to repay off State Aid. The young, white male that answered the 800 number for the state was snide as hell when he said that that money was owed to them. BULLSHIT, that money should be paid at least in a half and half manner especially when they can't DO THEIR JOB AND COLLECT MY MONEY ON A REGULAR BASIS. I HATE YOU ORLANDO HALL.

So this smug little asshole on the state line says he will note in my case that I want this NCP enforced and I laughed because I said well if they don't know this by now they never will. I asked for my balance with the state and he gave me a number in the $4000 area which I laughed at because it has to be DAMN low in comparison to the majority of baby mamaz that sit on their ass all day and do nothing. Then he had the nerve to tell me that Orlando owes me $18,099. I find that funny that he owes me $14,000 more than I owe them but they get to take an amount of money that I will NEVER see unless its enforced. This county has issues with enforcement they just see chances and BULLSHIT. AND YES whoever reads this I AM ANGRY.

Contact

Isn't if funny how one can google another and find out soo much. O has a set of twins in another city and fortunatley for him, she doesn't play the child support game with him as I do, she simply handles all her business herself. She found my blog by googling Orlando which I sooooo wish he would do so he would have a regular update on how little we think of him. Regardless in this occurence she and I have started talking, we lost touch for some time now and our kids keep up with each other on myspace.

She calls me to give me a blogworthy scoop of information so here goes. Apparently Orlando spawned yet another child to add to the five. This will make one a year for 5-6 years. They go 15, 14, 13, new one 12 and 11. This woman has been trying to contact Orlando solely for informational purposes and he still won't contact her. Its a shame, she may really only want the health background or only wanted him to know her child she made it clear to his mother that she wasn't after money and truth be known, it wouldn't have matter he wouldn't have paid it anyway.

Child Support NON-Enforcement

Well the time came and Orlando went to court with his appointed attorney. He brought letters with him from the local job agency supporting his claim to fame of "I am trying to find a job". I feel like the judge is walking around with the old cartoon Sucker stick for a head because she has just been bamboozelled by a habitual liar who now has the luck of having a participant in his crimes of neglegence and her name is wife or whatever idiot is writing him those letters. I wouldn't be a bit surprised if she concocted these letters for him.

I did hear that both Angie and Tre went to court with Orlando. Something the court frowns upon wholeheartedly but it did get the poor pitiful me effect across that he was looking for. The child in question that had no one to care for him is 15 and his mother was sitting directly beside him so he had no business in court but apparently it helped in getting his "Get out of child support free" card so it must have gotten the effect he wanted which is to not pay any of his real children's mothers.

Orlando, you never cease to disgust me. Why don't you just give up your rights to Tony so Terrell, the real man in this situation can take up where you never were. Its just that simple. For the world to hear, you want to know why this man won't give up his rights to my son, well its because they won't erase his back child support. They won't take away the debt he owes his son so he won't give the boy up so that someone who does the real job can take credit for it. I so wish you would give up so you can devote all your time to children who aren't related to you.

Thanks Terrell, you are a great man for continuing your relationship with Tony, maybe one day Orlando will think of himself second for a change and give Tony up so he can carry your last name.

Monopoly - Child Support Edition

In ongoing comments this morning with one of Orlando's childrens' mother, I coined the phrase "Get out of Child Support Free Card" and that is what I feel like when it comes to Orlando and the child support game he plays. In less than a week we will see if that saga continues. Make no mistake good people, I am not the only one suffering behind this. Orlando has a set of twins with another mother, and 2 more children with 2 other mothers as well. Thats 5 all together and I have heard of one more but DNA hasn't proved that one yet. I tell my son when it comes to girls, "Honey, if they favor you in any way, I would suggest that you don't talk to them because you really don't know for sure if you aren't related". Its sad but its true.

WTF is $30

Probably on the advice of his appointed attorney, Orlando musters up $30 to pay on his child support. Mind all of you his last payment was 9/22/2008 for $71. I ask myself and all of the rest of the world, what the F*%$ is $30 going to do for Tony? Well he is on Spring Break this week, maybe it will get him into a movie or 2 because I certainly can't do anything with it. I am going to be terribly upset is this pitiful amount of money keeps him out of jail this week.

You know how thos folks have the stickers with the jagged haired boy peeing on a Ford or Chevy or their rival footbal teams emblem, well I want one that the boy peeing on his non custodial parent for lack of everything, money, skill and the biggest on love. I'm Stephanie Reese, and thats the rest of the story, Good Day.

Orlando Goes To Court

So Orlando goes back to court on February 26th, 2009. Over the last few months and within the last few days, I have faxed various things to the child support office to dispute his bleeding heart case of "I can't find a job" & "I don't have a car". The man has never owned a car and thats in 17 years so why should that effect the support I get now. I googled over 50 places within a 1.5 mile radius of his house so they are within decent walking distance. Half of those jobs require no experience so he should have no excuses for not applying for them.

Back to the court date...... I couldn't attend this one but I figured with all the information I have sent to their office they were painfully aware that I want this man to pay or go to jail.. So they gave him the option for an attorney which is of course his rights but also the biggest waste of tax dollars today. If he had a decent reason for paying then he wouldn't need an attorney, but rights are rights aaight. So Laura calls and gives me a funny for the day. It turns out they appointed her to his case. She of course had to turn it down because shes my sister and all but I don't know who he has acquired. Put his ass in jail. He shoulda been there anyway.

Again, we play the wait to get paid game............

Still No Money

Well Good People, its now the 6th of February. Im sure if Orlando were to be able to file taxes or his new wife were to file taxes they should have received money by now but to no avail have I received any money. In 6 months this man has only been able to come up with $198.00 and that was over the span of August - September and none since. Pretty pathetic. I called the Child Support office and of course they were no help at all. They have a court date set up but it hasn't rolled out in the mail yet. I am totally over this mess.

Tony's Christmas Present

I guess I should be grateful that the man thought of my son at all. The first time he has brought Tony a physical present in close to a decade. He showed up unannounced at our home, I wasn't there. Tony was home with a friend and they were watchin movies and watnot. Tony made him stand outside because he new there would be hell to pay if he had let him in. Orlando gave him 3 presents. Turned out to be socks, wifebeaters, a sketch pad and a pack of colored pencils. The only thing that even suggested he knew Tony was the sketch pad and pencils but Orlando's new son-in-law is in Tony's Art class so Tony didn't give him any credit for knowledge.

To no avail, I haven't seen a dime, Im sure he is still crying unemployed. Who gets married without a job? Certainly not I.

Jan 2nd & Still No Money

I just wanted to air dirty laundry. When I re-read these, I was extremely nice for me regarding him and when I re-read his response it only ills me worse.



Subject: Tony
Date: Mon, 8 Dec 2008 10:23:59 -0500
From: RSO
To: orlando-hall@hotmail.com



Orlando,
Tony now officially gets nothing from the state down to the fact that he no longer qualifies for free-lunch. So that means I am paying for Insurance, school lunches, school clothes, Christmas, 15th Birthday Party and putting some money back to get the boy a car among every day living expenses. Im asking directly that you start helping him get thru life Orlando. I have never ever asked you for anything. There is only one income paying the bills at my house and it is me and its tight right now. I didn't care nearly as much when someone else was footing the responsibilities that you should be handling but since July, I have been handling them on my own and I AM TIRED.
I realize that you are unemployed, but I know that if you needed or wanted a job today, I could get you on at Sagebrush and have connections at other places. What I don't want to see is you making money under the table working on motorcycles and then me having to go to court only to find out that you claim unemployment. Im 100% positive that you smoke both cigs and greens when you want to, you drink your 40's or whatever is your drink of choice when you want to and you do and go wherever you want, you buy yourself namebrand clothes and when you see your kids you wonder for one second why they feel the way they do, well they see you got more than they got and you don't give a flip what they do or don't have. What they see is that you put you 1st and they know just like you know that behavior is WRONG.
You can afford weapons, you can afford to go to Honda Hoot, you can afford to ride around on a motorcycle, you can afford to be unemployed at Christmas time and be taken care of, you can afford all of these things and do it with no conscious of what your kids have or don't have. It means nothing to you. You need to work anywhere during this holiday season and help out your blood Orlando, we need the help during this month most of all and I know that you feel like cooking is beneath you now, but it is what it is and I NEED HELP.
I hope you don't take this request lightly. Im serious when I say I am tired and you may have gotten out of trouble because you are proving being at that Career Center, but it isn't helping me feed, cloth or provide for your son, so my understanding is completely gone and I will be a permanent fixture at that Child Support office being one of those women that they can't stand to hear her voice because Im calling down there wondering why something isn't being done. I should mention that I plan to have Laura come to court with me in February so that Im sure Im heard, she is now a Juvenile Attorney located to the right of the courthouse. Im serious when I say Im tired of playing this money game with you. I need help and if you aren't going to be father enough just to give me the minimum then I am going to have to step up the game plan.
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From: Orlando Hall [mailto:orlando-hall@hotmail.com]
Sent: Monday, December 08, 2008 1:56 PM
To: Reese, Stephanie A (RSO)
Subject: RE: Tony


I get that your upset (I doubt that)but what you dont know and probably dont care to know is that I can't work or get unemployment because the Social Security office has me listed as dead since 2004(So I wonder why his children haven't been receiving payment for his legally dead self for 4 years) and the unemployment office says there are 2 social security numbers listed for me. I have been trying to get this fixed since September and they still haven't gotten it fixed--so i have no money coming in. I have been out everyday walking (I live a mile from this man and I have never seen him walking)and putting in applications everywhere and no one has offered me a job. I don't have transportation--the bike is wrecked and undriveable(It looked just fine the month you went to Honda Hoot), so it's not as easy as you make it out to be(Its not that its easy, its that you aren't taking the jobs you don't want at a time when nobody is hiring) that i can go and get a job anywhere, because i have been trying since I got laid off in Sept.

Yes, I know I have responsbilities to all of my kids and no matter what you or anyone else thinks I am trying. No, I dont go out and do whatever I want--I gave that up a long time ago. I go to school 2 nights a week and the rest of the time i am at home. (Im so tired of hearing about you going to school, you been in school now for 10 years) Your not the only one who is struggling this time of the year (No,but Im struggling worse because of you), I'm not going to ask Angie to pay my child support and take away from Tre, bills and food here. It's not her job, its mine and Im not taking this lightly. (I never wanted Angies money, its bad enough she is footing you as a bill as well)

All I can do is what i have been, applying for jobs that are within walking distance of our house and trying to get this mess cleared up so i can work and work legally.

I do have some gifts for Tony if he wants them. He and Tre talk during one of their classes and i was going to have Tre ask him if he wanted them, you can do that and let me know. It's not a lot but its something. (Its Jan 2nd, do you think Tony has gotten a gift, a birthday present, hell even a phone call, NOPE)

O



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From: Reese, Stephanie A (RSO)
Sent: Monday, December 08, 2008 2:35 PM
To: 'Orlando Hall'
Subject: RE: Tony
Importance: Low


I don't want Angie to pay your support, I would never pay another child's support so I feel you and her there. I have never been one to really harp on you about the money, just sit back and think ill will of you is all, but it has come a time where I can no longer function and do all of this by myself. And yes, I do get angry when my son asks for stuff and I can't give it to him. He doesn't ask for much that is out of my reach until this time of the year because of his birthday and this year is more of a struggle for me so yes I am mad about it. He works Orlando, he works all them home games for UT and he does this for extras. He is really angry with you. I don't think you would get the reaction you wanted from him unless you approached him face to face and even then it would take several times of that. Sometimes, no most of the time, I don't think you realize what a gem you have in Tony Hall. He will go to college, he will make something out of himself, he is responsible and he is the child that was named after you, your first born and now that 15 years has passed us by, what does that really mean to you. I just don't know. He excels in school all A's & B's, he takes CAD and is exceptional in his fine arts class, thats the funny thing, if you guys could ever find common ground I think you would do well in a relationship, but both of you would have to get past your issues first, his issues being anger, yours being you don't like it when people are angry at you or having to feel guilty.

I'm not trying to argue with you or contradict you on they why's of which you can't work. What I will say is this. Every time I have seen you, you have been driving Angies car. I shared a vehicle with my ex for over 2 years and that meant one of us worked days and the other worked nights and when that didn't happen, he was riding with co-workers. I do understand all the other stuff too. Been there done that so I know that it takes extra efforts but it can be done. Im angry with reason and I don't feel like you will ever understand that.

I heard about the being dead and social security mix up stuff. I am in the midst of working with Nashville on my own namesake issues as well so I do know of how that can be time consuming. What I don't know is how it can prevent you from holding a job.

Hell if you are clean, I can get you hooked up with any of the local union halls for a job, I have been doing this here for over 3 years and I know a collection of people that matter here. There won't be any jobs here until February because they don't hire during the holidays and the locals aren't putting recs out until February but its manual labor. If you are up for it, just let me know. Laborers top out at 16, Operators @ 22, Electricians @ 25 and so on. You can be an apprentice for any or all of these but its 6:30 a.m. - 5:30 p.m. M-F and usually when the money is good around here there is 10 hours of overtime.

When I think of school, I get angry too Orlando, don't think I didn't want to go back to school. I could be all kinds of things in this world with an education but I have had to work my butt off an fight hard to get what I get now. I didn't have the opportunities of being childless. If I had half the opportunities you have had, I wouldn't be sweating so badly so when you mention the school thing, yes I do hope it works out for you but know I harbor some green envy that its you going and not me.

You know most of the time, I think that missing out on Tony's life is totally a loss for you. One you regret more so now than ever. Tony spends a lot of time acting all hard when really he is a big softie. He has had some rough years and we are now in a good relationship where things aren't so off kilter. He hates when I cry because I don't have lunch money for the day, he hates asking me for movie money on a Friday night because he has spent his own, he hates it when I cry because he wants that new pair of shoes that I simply can't afford and thats when he thinks of you and what do you think comes next. In his mind, you take care of Tre and you left him behind to fend for himself. Thats what he thinks Orlando and put yourself in his shoes, why shouldn't he think that. I googled you address to mine, you live .7 miles from our house. Thats not even a mile. What do you think he thinks about that? If you want a relationship with your son, you are going to have to find a way to do it. I wouldn't probably be half the beeyotch I am today, if you and Tony didn't have no relationship at all and he didn't feel like you don't love him, want to be a father to him or to support him. Thats what probably burns me up the most.



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