Timely Payments

As it turns out, I have been receving regular payments from O. They aren't much, but at this time in our lives a little goes a long way so I appreciate it. My newfound look on life has me hating less and looking for more good in folks that I once despised. Haven't spoken a word to him and have absolutely no desire to really. It's not my relationship to mend, if he ever wants to have a relationship with Tony he will have to really work hard and I don't know if he will ever be willing to do this.

Tony has gotten to play in the last two ORHS Varsity football games. FYI, he is #78, OLine & DLine. This weeks game is in pretty far off and I won't be attending. J doesn't act right at the games, 7 is just too young to have a lil one sit still for something she doesn't even understand.

Go Wildcats...

In Sickness & In Health

It seems Orlando may very well be sick. An un-named person has seen him of late and reported that during the time he spent at their house O managed to have several seizures. When asked what the results are of some testing, he didn't know because he hadn't gone back to find out. There is something wrong with that statement, he either a) knows and doesn't want to tell b) never went to be tested in the first place or c) is afraid to go back and find out. Regardless, he needs to be able to tell folks what is wrong not to mention know himself. I can safely report back that he is still an active alcoholic so the seizures aren't being caused by my previous thought which was he quit drinking. I saw all of T's sibs on Facebook, they all favor each other. The newest is a spitting image. I find that comical seeing as how it was a fluke that she wound up with O in the first place and has defied the statement of once you go black because she hasn't gone back since, LOL.

I have started going to church so I am trying to change some ways, one of which is to have so much hatred and disdain for Orlando. Its hard. I am trying to find forgiveness and just let it go, but my son is fixing to go to college and make something of himself and I don't want to hear one word out of O's mouth of a contribution to that. The best I can do right now is to say, I no longer with you dead. Its not where the Good Lord wants me to be, but for now, its a baby step. If you had been a decent parent, it would have never boiled down to the money. I could have cared less, I survived all these years without it right. It seems like you have gotten scared now that you aren't well and you should be but its hard to trust anything you are about because if you were well, you would have just kept on going.

Dear Jesus,

Please help me with my anger towards my son's biological father. Please help me forgive him for all the things he has missed and never done for my son and my son's siblings.

Amen

$30 Get Outta Jail Free Card

As I have stated many times, if you want to know how to avoid paying any support for your child and not go to jail, just ask Orlando Hall, he knows all the tricks. I received this odd payment of $30 so I called the CS Office to see whether I lucked up and he got a job. Surely I jest right, right. Turns out Orlando went to court on 9/17/2010 my eldest sons birthday just to be extended to courtesy of coming back on 10/15/2010 and be given time to make payment in between. Somehow $30 just bought him a "Get Outta Jail Free" card.

WTF

So Orlando goes to court both here and in Kingsport and claims that "seizures" crap and apparently has some type of insurance (with no job mind you) that provides him with a Dr's excuse. Attention all deadbeats, please take note to my blog if you ever want to know what to do to excuse yourself from providing lunch money or anything for your child.

Someone contacted O's mother and got a report that he has stopped drinking and this is what has caused these seizures. Too bad I wasn't in court to reveal this information to the Judge, I am not really sure it would have mattered but it would have made me feel better.

I do hope that O stops being a useless alcoholic, but to use it as an excuse not to support his many sperm donations is pretty sad to me. Get your azz off the couch and stop watching TV or telling stories of grandure to young minds and get a J O B.

Luckiest Deadbeat In The World

Orlando Hall should just sit at night and thank his lucky stars. He just knew his dumbass was going to jail so what does he do, he shows up for court still drunk from the night before. Hello jerk, if you can afford to drink and smoke, I think you can afford some lunch money for your son. But to no avail, this moron manages to muster up for the judge "Judge, here's the sitcheeashunn", my sister is sitting there thinking how did her sister ever have the nerve to sleep with such a moron much less manage to pull off having this kid who will defy all those moronic genes and be somebody. Thank you Jesus for that by the way. End result, they offered the stooge an attorney and he of course took one because that leaves him more time to get drunk and not pay me child support, oh yeah and owe somebody else money. I get this call from my sister later on telling me the details, apparently the judge asks O if he has been drinking because somebody has probably smelled it on him. He says he tied one on late into the night because he thought he was going to jail. Yep, he really said that out loud. The judge asked told him she could accomodate him with his request to get to jail and he bowed out of that one quickly taking his attorney and leaving the courtroom for a new date of whoknowswhen.

May 27th Contempt

Hopefully the court will see fit to know that you don't have the landslide of excuses you had last time of "I'm looking for work" or my personal favorite "The SS office has me listed as a dead person". Maybe, just maybe they will see you in the top bunk of this County Jail and you will have to fork over some of that money, however you may get it, in order to get out. But if you can't you can look forward to Good Ol Bubba checking you out. Maybe it will be incentive, to you know get a life and get a job. I look forward to seeing you on the fron page of "Busted".

Who will you run too? Who will save you now? How will you squirm your way out of this one? Tune in folks, next week for the answer to these and several other questions.

Contempt Court Date

Orlando has an Contempt Court Date on May 27th. I am gambling to say that they sent this information to his former address, but she would gladly relay the information of that I am sure. But he himself can use it as an excuse not to show, I didn't receive notification, my woman broke it off with me. Because that is what kind of fellow he is.

My baby asked me for lunch money today jerk and had you put $20 into child support, I might not have had to dig up change because I am broke until Friday. You suck. You Sucka. You Suckem.